How porn affects your relationships

Couple looking at something interesting on the screen together

Porn as escapism

Good relationships take effort. And while couples can use porn together, many times it’s used privately as escapism.

Performance anxiety

Porn and shame

If you are single

Remember: Rejection Over Regret. Always.
Would you rather live with regret? Or experience a momentary rejection that will sting, but you will get over it?

Many people who come from conservative backgrounds never learnt how to talk to the opposite sex. They find it awkward as hell. But practice makes perfect. And there are many resources online on how to gain confidence to approach others. Sometimes there’s some basic things missed like good hygiene. Sometimes it’s just learning how to make small talk.

Remember, you are the result of your parents getting laid, and their parents getting laid ,and their parents… Your genes have been successful in reproducing themselves all the way to you. There’s nothing more natural than falling in love and having sex. Go with the flow. You can do it!

In conclusion

Husband, dad to five, tech enthusiast. Former Conservative Muslim. www.abdullahsameer.com

Husband, dad to five, tech enthusiast. Former Conservative Muslim. www.abdullahsameer.com